Consider yourself #Blessed!
Check back in a couple days for a post full of sass and a yearly update. For now, enjoy some videos below and also some photos of our 3rd floor condo — as decorated as it could be on the outside! And a random photo of our tree on Jason’s roof. So lit. We hope that Buddy the Elf would be proud.
Also, here’s a fun video of us playing the Whisper Challenge.
Adventures are fun – and we’ve had a lot in this past year… But there is nothing greater than being fully known and fully loved – and that’s what I’m most grateful for this past year.
After the music video part, there’s the audio of the vows we spoke at our wedding – along with all the sounds of an outdoor wedding at a vineyard. Then there’s a little clip of the below quote from Timothy Keller that I appreciate… especially since he says ‘sexy’ 3 times in 1 thought.
Real love is sacrificial service and the increasing delight that comes from someone you’ve invested your life in. At first you’re like, “I’m falling in love with this person.” You’re falling in love with the idea of who that person is not the real person. As years go by, you find out who you are, you both find each other’s flaws, you both get totally disillusioned with each other, then you rebuild your respect for each other because you see each person holding on, giving up, trying harder, moving on through, embracing, repenting, forgiving, showing grace to each other. Slowly, real love grows. Slowly you begin to admire that other person for what she’s been through for you – and vice versa. In the end, that’s the most ‘sexy’ thing of all: when someone you admire.. admires you. -Timothy Keller
Ariel, Growing with you for these last 651 days has been the best unexpected blessing of my life.
I see who God is making you and it excites me. I want to partner with you and God in that journey.
I promise to eventually understand when too much tickling is really too much.
I promise to never stop kissing your forehead, opening your car door, or reminding you how beautiful you are.
I promise to forgive you when you leave the dirty dishes in the sink.
I promise to ask for forgiveness when I inevitably do something to offend you.
I promise to be your husband and not just your provider.
I promise to care, protect you, to comfort and encourage you, to be gentle with you, and to stay with you for the remaining days of our lives.
I promise to work towards listening, learning, loving, nourishing, cherishing, and shepherding you well. I commit my whole self to you.
I promise to make my relationship with Christ a priority so that by God’s grace I can fulfill these promises for you.
Jason, Falling in love with you has been a joy and an adventure and I’m excited to fall in love with you again and again day after day as we grow into the Godly couple we are called to be.
I promise to always be attentive to you and support you in all of your pursuits. I will encourage you with love, respect, and trust.
I will be careful with my tone and words that can pick away at our love and will instead seek to always be gentle in my words and actions towards you.
I will be your confidant, your challenger, your motivator, your prayer partner, and your friend everyday of our lives.
I promise to always meet you at the door but not immediately ask about your day at work.
I promise to point out all your new grey hairs and wrinkles and tolerate it reasonably well when you pick out mine knowing that they signify time spent together and laughter shared.
I also promise to break all of these promises at some time.
Except this one.
I promise to love you faithfully, forever, in an abundance of forgiveness and compassion just as God first loved us faithfully, endlessly, and full of grace.
My faith in Him gives me faith in us to be marriage partners for the remaining days of our lives.
Quadcopter footage from the Texas Quarry in Cockeysville, Maryland. At nearly a mile long and 500 feet deep, “Texas Quarry, located in Cockeysville, Maryland, has been in operation for more than 150 years. This facility provided some of the building blocks of one of the most recognizable landmarks in our nation’s capital—the Washington Monument. Today, the material mined at the Texas Quarry is primarily dolomitic limestone, used in road construction and producing ready mixed concrete and hot mixed asphalt.”
Loch Raven Reservoir is a 23 billion gallon capacity reservoir lake that provides Baltimore City and Baltimore County with drinking water. There are miles of wooded hiking trails and beautiful waterfront views.
Loch Raven Reservoir is a 23 billion gallon capacity reservoir lake that provides Baltimore City and Baltimore County with drinking water. There are miles of wooded hiking trails and beautiful waterfront views. On the weekends, Loch Raven Drive is closed to vehicle traffic so that walkers, runners, and bikers can safely enjoy exercising around the reservoir. Having the road closed makes it extra safe & accessible to picnic along the shores of the reservoir lake.
It also boasts, arguably, one of the best sunset views in the state.
Music: Flapo – Dear Neighbor Ft. Jenni Potts. Check Flapo out on SoundCloud! https://soundcloud.com/flapo/flapo-dear-neighbor-ft-jenni-potts-1
Towson (/ˈtaʊsən/)[1] is an unincorporated community and a census-designated place in Baltimore County, Maryland. The population was 55,197 at the 2010 census. It is the county seat of Baltimore County[2] and the second-most populated unincorporated county seat in the United States (after Ellicott City, Maryland in nearby Howard County).[3]
Coming soon!
Photos from exploring Swallow Falls/Muddy Creek Falls and also the frozen-over Deep Creek Lake. Not the first time here, but definitely the best time. We got to Swallow Falls before anyone else. There was an eerie fog and grayness to the landscape which contrasted the tall hemlocks. It had snowed the week prior and there was a serious melt going on — so the water was raging!
Still working on the rest of this post!
For now, you can click through the embedded album from Flickr.
We’ll be making a ‘summary’ video from our trip… but in the meantime, we’ve put together these individual videos from various aspects of the trip.
It has been 100 days since we stood before God and our loved ones to pledge our commitment to each other. Leading up to the wedding, 100 days felt infinitesimally small. But the 100 days post-wedding have felt like eternity at times. We have already gone through some ‘for better’ and ‘for worse’ things. I have a few thoughts after reflecting back on these past 100 days:
Just kidding. But I have suffered from endless sneezing, congestion, a sinus infection, and a relentless cough since the week after our wedding.
Today, my doctor informed me that it appears to be caused by an environmental allergen, but it’s probably not my husband. It’s more likely to be the carpets or something in my new home (aka semi-redecorated, former bachelor pad –- say no more. I’m ready to move). My current round of steroids will hopefully relieve the inflammation. But for THREE MONTHS, the headaches, snot rags, fits of coughing, and overall lethargy have prevented me from being the most doting of wives. Instead of bouncing up to greet him at the door, he walks in to find me burrowed into a pile of crumpled tissues on the couch. Instead of staying up into the wee hours of the night giggling at the newness and excitement of sharing a life together, I snore and drool into my pillow after knocking back a shot of Nyquil. Instead of making out in the back of a movie theater on our date night, I whisper a nasally “I love you” and then cradle my achy face in my hands and regret not bringing the entire box of tissues.
But even in these “for worse” instances, we are better. I know he loves me when he peers into my glazed, itchy, and slightly swollen eyes and says “you’re beautiful.” I know he loves me when he tucks my hair behind my ear and coaxes me into a nap instead of pushing me out of bed to finish the chores. I know he loves me when he does those chores for me because he knows I had a long day, too. And I know he loves me when he lights candles for me while I’m in the bathtub. It’s nice to know he still loves me even when I haven’t felt like my usual self for weeks.
And I’m pretty sure he knows I love him. He knows I love him even when he frustrates me to the point of tears, but I say “I love you” anyway. He knows I love him when I search through for dinner ideas and ignore all of the awesome looking casseroles smothered with cheese. He knows I love him when I’ve been chronically “under the weather” and I’m tired ALL THE TIME, but I sort and fold his clothes, make his dinners, clean the bathroom, wash the dishes, vacuum the floors, and make the bed most days of the week anyway. He knows I love him when I put down my school work and take the time to rub his back while he finishes up a work project.
Even though we love each other when we aren’t our best selves, I’m excited to get rid of this constant headache/congestion/cough/sneezing/achiness and bring my normal, full-force of energy into our marriage.
I am convinced a troll lives in our kitchen, shits on the dishes, and piles them in the sink. There is no way that two people who aren’t even home that often can generate that number of dirty dishes. I had no idea the song to our first dance would be foreshadowing this daily struggle.
It’s true that we eat out less and enjoy more meals at home, but this is unreal. Everyday involves unloading the dishwasher, reloading it with the dishes sitting the kitchen sink, and refilling the sink with dirty dishes until it has to be done again the next day. Some days have involved 2-3 cycles… in one day! Over and over again.
I baked a lot around the holidays and we’ve had various people over for dinner throughout the month of January – I’m hoping we’ll settle into a more anti-social rhythm, which might alleviate this plight.
Or the troll will continue his antics and I will forever be stuck cleaning the same plates over and over again for the rest of my life.
Neither of us ever thought being married would be a walk in the park. I’m thankful our marriage is built on the foundation of the Gospel, because our marriage would already be crumbled without our knowledge and application of Christ, grace, and forgiveness.
Other things in life, like work or school assignments, become so urgent; they end up climbing to the top of our priority lists. Things have to be done now, and our spouse will be there tomorrow! And after we’ve depleted our energy on other things and people, it’s easy to think, “I’ll give to my spouse tomorrow – after I’ve done this for me, or make myself feel good this way.” But then tomorrow comes and we get drained again. And it’s easy to become energy-less roommates with nothing to give to the other, expecting to receive bountifully. From that selfish vantage point, it becomes even easier to binge watch Netflix, play online games, or seek attention in the wrong places, all in an effort to be filled up. We have to be intentional about replenishing ourselves through prayer, before the end of the day, so we can pour into each other. We cannot become lazy in serving our spouse, even when we’re tired or drained. We have to be intentional in making each other feel loved and secure; and we have to be intentional in making sure we’re able to do that by first resting in the love and security of Christ.
53Then each of them went home, 1while Jesus went to the Mount of Olives. 2Early in the morning he came again to the temple. All the people came to him and he sat down and began to teach them. 3The scribes and the Pharisees brought a woman who had been caught in adultery; and making her stand before all of them, 4they said to him, “Teacher, this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery. 5Now in the law Moses commanded us to stone such women. Now what do you say?” 6They said this to test him, so that they might have some charge to bring against him. Jesus bent down and wrote with his finger on the ground. 7When they kept on questioning him, he straightened up and said to them, “Let anyone amount you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone as her.” 8And once again he bent down and wrote on the ground. 9When they heard it, they went away, one by one, beginning with the elders; and Jesus was left alone with the woman standing before him.10Jesus straightened up and said to her, “Woman, where are they? Has no one condemned you?” 11She said, “No one, sir.” And Jesus said, “Neither do I condemn you. Go your way, and from now on do not sin again.”
John 7:53-8:11 NRSV
The Gospel of John is unique within the genre of the canonized gospels due to its advanced theological interpretations of Jesus as the Son of God, and well-developed literary devices such as poetry, symbolism, and irony. Scholars agree that a lot of ambiguity and conjectures about the certainty of this gospel’s authorship, date of writing, and sources continue to this day. Despite the unknown specifics about the production of this gospel, the passage about “The Woman Caught in Adultery” is agreed by religious scholars to not be initially included in the Gospel of John (Burge, 1996; Keener, 2014; Kieffer, 2007; Rensberger, 2006; Scott, 2003; Shepherd, 1971). However, according to the redactors, this passage appropriately belongs in the Gospel of John because it reflects the author’s belief in Jesus’ authority from God, and his compassionate promise to “judge no one. Yet even if I do judge, my judgement is valid; for it is not I alone who judge, but I and the Father who sent me,” (Jn 8:15b-16).
The Gospel of John is included in the Christian canon, but it is not included as a synoptic gospel because is contains unique characters and events not mentioned in the other three canonized gospels, and lacks stories that are included in them (Rensberger, 2006). Unfortunately, the differences between this gospel and the others have caused speculation about the reliability of this account of Jesus (Kieffer, 2007), but scholars like Burge and Shepherd argue the authenticity and historicity of this book being corroborated by subsequent historical and archaeological discoveries, like the documents found near Qumran, that support the author’s claims.
There are a number of theories about the identity of this “beloved disciple” who wrote the fourth gospel. Some scholars recognize the author as an entire Johannine school, formed by multiple disciples of John, the son of Zebedee, which represents an “idealized literary figure,” as an author through a process of redaction and revision (Burge, 1996; Keener, 2014; Kiefer, 2007). This theory has substantial evidence in the cultural context of conflict between the early Jewish Christians and authorities of the Jewish synagogues (Keener, 2014; Rensberger, 2006). However, another widely accepted belief with strong evidence is that the author is John, son of Zebedee, and apostle of Jesus (Burge, 1996; Keener, 2014; Rensberger, 2006; Shepherd, 1971). Scholars have access to ancient accounts of Irenaeus, the Bishop of Lyons, and other historical figures who claim to have been instructed by John, and that he “lived to a great age,” (Burge, 1996). Burge cites historical documents that claim John, the apostle of Jesus, lived until the reign of Trajan, who ruled between 98 and 117 C.E.; another account states that John lived to the 68th year after the death of Jesus, which would be around 98 C.E. Either way, the gospel’s claim to come from an eye witness is significant (Keener, 2014), and the gospel has been revised, most likely by John’s disciples (Kieffer, 2007) which is evidenced by the original absence of the 7:53-8:11 passage in the earliest manuscripts of the Gospel of John.
Although the authorship of the gospel is contested by scholars, it is generally agreed that the gospel was primarily composed in Ephesus around the 90s of the first century; that time period cannot be debated because it has been confirmed by a manuscript fragment of the gospel dating to the early 2nd century (Keener, 2014). The date is significant because it shapes the literary devices and tone of John’s gospel. After the destruction of the temple in 70 C.E., Pharisees gained religious authority and power, which is present in John’s gospel, and conflict arose between the religious authorities (Pharisees) and Jewish Christian believers as early as the 70s and most definitely by the 90s (Keener, 2014). Rensberger suggests a later time period of authorship, which ranges from 90 – 120 C.E., but other scholars generally agree that it was composed before the turn of the first century (Burge, 1996; Keener, 2014; Kieffer, 2007; Shepherd, 1971). Ignatius, the martyr-Bishop of Antioch was using phrases and alluding to the gospel of John in 115 C.E., which means the gospel message had been transcribed and was circulating by then (Shepherd, 1971). The gospel, a “hostile picture of relations between Jesus and the Jews,” (Rensberger, 2006) was directed toward a wide audience, but primarily existing Jewish Christians, “so that you may come to believe that Jesus is the Messiah, the Son of God, and that through believing you may have life in his name,” (Jn 20:31 NRSV).
The estimated time scholars believe the Gospel of John had been written indicates that the author would have had all other canonized gospels available as sources, but this gospel is truly unique in having so few passages parallel to those of the synoptics (Rensberger, 2006). The fourth gospel clearly has its own agenda in confirming Jesus as the son of God, but Kieffer conjectures that it was inspired by Mark, and possibly Luke or perhaps a mutual source of Luke and John. This might be the reason that the 7:53-8:11 passage was originally inserted in the Gospel of Luke. This passage of the adulterous woman is included in John because of “its affinity to other Johannine stories in which Jesus and women engage sympathetically with one another,” but it is clearly the ending of a different passage because it has no relation to verse 7:52 (Scott, 2003). But this passage of the adulterous woman does start with a typical action of going to the temple in the morning to teach, as seen in Luke 21:37 (Kieffer, 2007; Rensberger, 2006). Verse 3 in the NRSV, NIV, ESV, and KJV translations identifies the scribes and pharisees as the people who brought the woman to Jesus, among others, which is significant because “scribes” are not mentioned by name in any other passage of John’s gospel (Keener, 2014; Rensberger, 2006). This makes the style to be very unlike John (Burge, 1996), which further supports the theory that this passage was later added during a redaction. Regardless of original authorship, this passage appears to be authentic and accurate; it is likely that the scribes were present with the Pharisees during that historical time period and in that location because they were active in the temple and responsible for administration and diplomacy (Browning, 1996). Together, the scribes and Pharisees brought a woman in front of Jesus and accused her of adultery. They claimed “this woman was caught in the very act of committing adultery,” (v. 5), but many scholars question the truth of their assertion.
Scott provides four reasons to believe that the scribes and Pharisees presented this woman to Jesus as a set-up: First, they are religious authorities, and there is no reason to try the case in public or consult Jesus if they actually had evidence or eye-witness accounts of her committing adultery. Secondly, only the woman is brought before Jesus. Deuteronomy 22:22 states that “If a man is caught lying with the wife of another man, both of them shall die, the man who lay with the woman as well as the woman. So you shall purge the evil from Israel,” (NRSV). Therefore, if the woman had really been caught in the act, then the scribes and Pharisees would be obligated to also accuse and punish the male offender as well. Since the man was not brought forward, readers can either assume the Pharisees knowingly let him go unpunished or are falsely accusing the woman, which are both morally wrong (Burge, 1996). Thirdly, given the political climate, bringing this charge to be decided by Jesus puts him in an impossible position. “Rome had re-moved capital jurisdiction from Jewish courts, except for temple violations. Thus the Jewish leaders test whether Jesus will reject the law, compromising his patriotic Jewish following, or reject Roman rule, which will allow them to accuse him to the Romans,” (Keener, 2014). Fourthly, the narrator of the story indicates the purpose of the Pharisees and scribes is to entrap Jesus, which corroborates a set-up, of which Jesus is very likely to be aware.
Next in the passage, Jesus wrote on the ground with his finger (v. 6b). Readers and scholars alike debate what Jesus was writing. At that time, Roman judges wrote the offenders’ sentences before executing a punishment, so it is speculated that Jesus was writing an acquittal (Keener, 2014). Scripture also depicts God as writing the commandments with His finger (Keener, 2014), so it is also possible that Jesus is writing a commandment, like Deuteronomy 19:18-19, which says, “and the judges shall make a thorough inquiry. If the witness is a false witness, having testified falsely against another, then you shall do to the false witness just as the false witness had meant to do to the other. So you shall purge the evil from your midst,” (NRSV). If this is what Jesus wrote, it would accuse the Pharisees and scribes for bearing false witness, which would result in an equal punishment of being stoned. There is no conclusive way to know what Jesus wrote on the ground, but the latter conclusion would better support the author’s belief in Jesus having equal authority to God by being equally able to write the commandments and be able to “judge.”
Finally, in verse 7, he stands up from writing and says “Let anyone among you who is without sin be the first to throw a stone at her.” This statement is possibly based on the Law found in Deuteronomy 17:7 (Rensberger, 2006): “The hands of the witnesses shall be the first raised against the person to execute the death penalty, and afterward the hands of all the people. So you shall purge the evil from your midst” (NRSV). At this time, the Pharisees and scribes could probably see what was written on the ground. “[A]s the elders in the Sanhedrin have not been mentioned before, presbytery designates probably the oldest men,” among the supposed witnesses are to begin throwing the first stones (Kieffer, 2007). But instead of throwing stones, according to verse 9, “When they heard it, they went away, one by one, beginning with the elders.” Somehow, the accusers became convicted of their own sin, most likely of being a false witness, and walked away without throwing a stone.
Once they left, Jesus was left alone with the woman. “With much skill the author has delayed the dialogue with the accused woman to the end of the story,” (Kieffer, 2007). According to the narrator, Jesus asks the woman if anyone remains. When she answers answers in the negative, he replies, “Neither do I condemn you. Go your way, and from now on do not sin again.” Throughout the various translations, this line of dialogue is most likely to be significantly altered than any other line in the passage. The NIV translation says “Then neither do I condemn you…,” which the operative word being “then,” which indicates a dependence on the lack of condemnation by the Pharisees and scribes. Most other translations do not include that condition, which better conforms to the authority attributed to Jesus in this gospel; his judgement is not dependent on the judgement of others. Although it is likely that the Pharisees and scribes falsely accused the woman, Jesus’ command to her to “not sin again,” implies that she had sinned, which would be justly punishable by law. The final words of Jesus echo the admonition he gave after healing a man in Jn 5:14 (Scott, 2003), which reflect Jesus’ choice to heal the woman of her past transgressions, but without condoning her sin or condemning her.
This passage shows two sides of Jesus; his righteous judgement and compassionate mercy, which he gives equally to the adulterous woman and the false accusers. The Jewish Testament portrays God’s righteousness, judgement, and just punishment, but this gospel message asserts that Jesus has the same authority of God, and shows mercy and love instead. Jesus, in the passage, presents a new image of God to the readers of the Johannine gospel. The redactors seem to have inserted this passage, which is consistent with other actions of Jesus, historical locations, and events, into the Gospel of John in order to prelude Jesus’ powerful assertion about his authority and right to judge (Jn 8:16). This pronouncement story of the woman who committed adultery reflects the author’s belief in Jesus’ authority to judge, but within the context of his compassion and mercy.
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